someone must think about this

"Pain won't stop until you make it stop"

This single line is true.

It's the truth, but many people start thinking their mental and physical abuse from their significant other is the treatment they deserve.

It becomes the victim's personality in long run. Don't always think that they should left the moment first instance happened. But it's not that easy. It's never that easy.

I just read a book. I didn't like the cover, but I thought to give it a try. But I was correct it was just extended abuse of the main character until he couldn't take it anymore, I couldn't take it anymore and stopped reading just to check out if it was a happy ending. Then I thought even i wanted a happy ending, everyone wants that happy ending with the person they love even if they don't know them yet. 

Just think like this the character was physically abuse and mentally tortured and the doctor said that he has long term side effects of physical abuse and still didn't contact the police. I know it fiction but then forward a few chapters the mother in law discouraging and manipulating him after the husband beat him till a deep wound near his eye bled, bent his arm until it almost broke and then his mental trauma of  Claustrophobia is an anxiety disorder that causes an intense fear of enclosed spaces and Nyctophobia is an extreme fear of night or darkness that can cause intense symptoms of anxiety and depression that he knew about from the start to shut him in the basement. At last the character got enough courage to face it and consider the divorce after 3 years of abuse and this so called lovable mother in law uses his father's buisness to make him give up the idea and then this victim took the chance once again saying that this is the last chance I am giving this relationship. This was the point at which I gave up the book even after knowing it's a happy ending. 

Just made me think what is our life that we are living if we can't even live it safely and the people that we trust will manipulate us. It not just the story that made me think this just even our own culture that no divorce possible I know it changing but still old people theory that once married you will only leave the husband's house as a dead person. Even think about it every girl gets to hear this line from childhood that " you're a girl you should compromise you will go to someone else house that will be your home after marriage" Don't these people think what they're teaching their own daughter that this not your home anymore and the in laws will say whenever something happens that it her fault.

It's not that even I am unaffected. It's just that even I don't know how my family will react iff I landed in this situation and this make me scared and I know I shouldn't be scared but no one has ever assured me that whatever happens we will fight for you. I know they will I know they would want to. But the single line of long kya kahenge breaks my belief in its cradle because I don't know if that log kya kahenge would be more important than anyone's life, not just my own. But many  people still don't understand this. If you're reading this and agree. I would like you assure your family be it girl or boy , be it younger or older that you always have their backs and espect them to have your back no matter the situation. 

-deadbeautiful01